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"Dr. Gibson points out also that if you have any degree of empathy that you probably sense that these are deeply wounded and hurt individuals, so you make accommodations for them." THIS. And if we learned to do it with our parents/whoever in childhood, then it becomes the way that we learn to love, and we often repeat that until we do the work to do things differently. <3 <3

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Very good point.

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