I agree with you. Narcissists will never regret having hurt us. They may feign regret and even say sorry, but in reality they feel only sorry for having been found out, for not being able to keep the cake and eat it too. Mine always said right after he said sorry, that he suffered too from guilt, as if this was enough to exonerated himself. When I realized he kept doing things that hurt me all the while pretending to be sorry, I knew I had to leave the relationship.
I agree with you. Narcissists will never regret having hurt us. They may feign regret and even say sorry, but in reality they feel only sorry for having been found out, for not being able to keep the cake and eat it too. Mine always said right after he said sorry, that he suffered too from guilt, as if this was enough to exonerated himself. When I realized he kept doing things that hurt me all the while pretending to be sorry, I knew I had to leave the relationship.